Enki 137 Posted September 17, 2020 From google translate: To all the fans who support THE DESPERADO Thank you for your continued support of THE DESPERADO. Since June 5th (Friday), there has been no communication with Hiroto (Dr). I am trying to contact you by taking various measures, but I have not been able to contact you until now. Hmm. If there is no contact at all as it is, we are proceeding with discussions with a policy that we have no choice but to [withdraw]. If you have any information, please contact us. Currently, Nero and Seiya are more motivated than ever and proceed with music production without stopping. I am sorry. We deeply apologize to our fans. 2020.9.17 Nero & Seiya 1 1 2 suji, benzaiten._, TheTrendkiller and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BrenGun 2261 Posted September 17, 2020 Of course of course another bandman who wish to break contact with his bandmates... 2 TheTrendkiller and zaa_zaa reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Elazmus 1873 Posted September 17, 2020 Wow they held out waiting for him for a WHILE... 1 1 zaa_zaa and Chimerari reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
benzaiten._ 59 Posted September 17, 2020 -pretends to be surprised- Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kyo_Toriko 537 Posted September 17, 2020 This is a really bad news, but if Nero & Seiya will keep making music, then it's okay for me! 1 Enki reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
zaa_zaa 208 Posted September 17, 2020 The guy got married and disappeared. A typical case of a disappeared married/with a bangya knocked up bandmen. Exactly the same thing happened with the second vocalist of Deathgaze - he didn't come to their gig and next thing you know - there are pictures of his wedding 2 1 1 Kyo_Toriko, TheTrendkiller, Arkady and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gaz 1097 Posted September 17, 2020 those fucking weddings are killing the scene 3 Arkady, Joel and Xerath reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
少女椿 343 Posted September 17, 2020 But if he's happy rn - it's okay, and no one has the right to judge him... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
suji 8317 Posted September 17, 2020 1 hour ago, 少女椿 said: But if he's happy rn - it's okay, and no one has the right to judge him... the only thing that was shady was the fact that he bailed on his band from out of nowhere, rather than be upfront with them about wanting to leave either that or he couldn't wait out for a ~last live~ especially due to covid and shit Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fruitfork 116 Posted September 17, 2020 Wtf is with bandmen going ghost instead of letting them know they quit, I didn't really care before but it's just so... embarrassing and honestly kind of depressing to see the other members having to post this shit when they clearly want to continue making music 2 2 Total Saikou, ahnchc, TheTrendkiller and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ricchubunny 2013 Posted September 17, 2020 Wow I guess they are desesperados 2 3 1 zaa_zaa, suji, -NOVA- and 3 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Himeaimichu 1535 Posted September 17, 2020 imo if you're willing to leave a band because you got married... you probably are best off not playing music in the first place... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Joel 90 Posted September 17, 2020 Damn I knew something like this had to have been going on, didn't think he was straight up ghosting his band though lmao Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fruitfork 116 Posted September 17, 2020 31 minutes ago, Himeaimichu said: imo if you're willing to leave a band because you got married... you probably are best off not playing music in the first place... THANK YOU Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
patientZERO 1066 Posted September 17, 2020 I'm not surprised at all. He hasn't been in any of the band's "music videos" and got married quite a while ago. I am surprised it took this long for them to post about it, though. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Enki 137 Posted September 17, 2020 I never even considered him a member because of his constant absence Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nekkichi 6043 Posted September 18, 2020 muh honmei deserves their 『shiawase』! ! ! how dare u judge him and his choices???????? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
enyx 903 Posted September 18, 2020 On 9/17/2020 at 3:55 PM, 少女椿 said: But if he's happy rn - it's okay, and no one has the right to judge him... This is a strange way of looking at it. I don't think anybody would criticise him if he'd simply told them "I've decided there are other things in life I want to pursue, so I'm leaving the band as of x-date", but completely ghosting your friends/colleagues/bandmates/whatever without warning is just scummy regardless of the reason (unless you literally died or became incapacitated somehow). 2 ahnchc and suji reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
少女椿 343 Posted September 19, 2020 8 hours ago, enyx said: This is a strange way of looking at it. I don't think anybody would criticise him if he'd simply told them "I've decided there are other things in life I want to pursue, so I'm leaving the band as of x-date", but completely ghosting your friends/colleagues/bandmates/whatever without warning is just scummy regardless of the reason (unless you literally died or became incapacitated somehow). That's right!! But I feel myself a bit uncomfortable when reading opinions, like, "if you're planning to leave after marriage - don't even dream of being bandman", life is quite unpredictable, right... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
patientZERO 1066 Posted September 27, 2020 In no surprise to anyone, Hiroto has withdrawn from the band. In a statement on twitter, they said they finally contacted him and he's safe, but he has no motivation for musical activities anymore and found it a hindrance to be with the band. Nero and Seiya have said they will continue as a two-person project and apologize for any inconvenience this has provided. 1 Kyo_Toriko reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kyo_Toriko 537 Posted September 29, 2020 This is so frustrating, but Nero & Seiya will keep going, So it's still not bad since they both still want to make music in the future! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
