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  2. Posted

    25 minutes ago, Zeus said:


    Please don't be discouraged. @Disposable is right, but there's something to be said about the dynamics of online dating to begin with. Studies have shown more men use online dating then women. The divide is so big that some sites (like Ashley Madison) had to create bots and have employees pretend to be female so that male users would continue to frequent the site! Tinder must be similar. Your observation proves it. She may get 4 matches in 30 minutes but they're probably not quality matches. Focus on you and standing out and I promise something will work out :D

    Here's a link on the Ashley Madison thing I'm talking about: https://gizmodo.com/disgraced-cheating-site-ashley-madison-claims-it-has-mi-1795436093

    Thank you :) I guess like most things it just takes time, perserverence, and a lot of luck! 

  3. Posted

    49 minutes ago, platy said:

    Tinder is always harder for men. There's studies on it lol There's 10 guys to every woman, so women can be picky.

    I'm not single, but I am in the dating scene and fuck, apps like this really knocked my confidence (and patience) down. It feels like people simply don't know how to socialise anymore and everything is very superficial. In any case, you're not the problem. 

    Thank you! I've just started and what little confidence I had is in freefall ^^"

  4. Posted

    6 hours ago, Marchen said:

     

    I'm fine. Broke some hearts along the way, but I keep going. I am not searching everywhere for someone like I used to do, lol

     

    Also Tinder sucks so much around here, I wonder how it's going to be in Vancouver

     

     

    I think it's finding that inner strength and knowing what you truly want. No point settling for second best just because :)

     

    From the sound of it, no one here is enjoying Tinder XD 

  6. Posted

    1 hour ago, Marchen said:

    What's going on here guys lol

     

    Anyway since I left my 3 years relationship I just don't care about being alone anymore

    We've all gone a bit loopy, but it keeps us all sane :)

     

    How are you finding the single life? 🙂 

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  8. Posted

    6 minutes ago, Gesu said:

    It sucks being picky, don't it? I can hardly ever find a cute shy guy who's my type and when I do, it never works because they always find me strangely intimidating. I think it's because I force myself to make the first move but never actually say anything so I'm just kinda lingering?

     

    4 minutes ago, Neigedesmannes said:

    Maybe the kind you or i are attracted to aren't the kind who use dating apps alot xd 

     

    We need our own dating group for COOL/SHY/CUTE people ❤️

     

    It's weird. I want a shy, cute chick and yet I'm rubbish at making the first move sooooo I don't XD I keep end up getting scooped up by women who are much more independent so while I'm initially happy and flattered, my emotions eventually get stomped all over. 

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  9. Posted

    3 minutes ago, Neigedesmannes said:

    Same here. I hate using the word 'basic' to describe someone but pretty much none of the gals or guys were of my type. 

    Agreed =.= None of the girls are my type at all. There are few alt girls on there, and the ones who are aren't attractive 😢

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  10. Posted

    1 hour ago, Euronymous said:

    If it makes you feel better,I feel super old already and kinda frustrated for having spent most of my years in doors. I know i still young but I feel like the best of the best days were wasted, unfortunately. Not many stories to tell and more responsibilities over my head.

    Oh ditto. Kind of the reason why I want to get on the dating scene/meet new people. I don't get out much and pretty much just keep myself to myself. Kind of wish I did the whole uni experience properly instead of being an introvert. 

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    11 minutes ago, Euronymous said:

    I dont like the thought that I could be just "using" someone and the other using me as well, each person has a value.But deep inside I'm not even sure if i wanna be in a serious relationship.I mean,my body has it's desires,but that's all. When I see a nice couple walking together on the streets i feel like I need that in my life too,but in other hand I don't want the "responsibilities" that comes along...It's complicated.

    Saaaaaame! God damn, guys. Let's start a club! 

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  14. Posted

    18 minutes ago, Euronymous said:

    Well,I guess I just haven't been lucky enough with that.i wouldn't mind spending my free time with some girl that appreciates being with me.Just couldn't find someone to make me that interested.

     

    Furthermore, it's kinda amusing this "type" thing,cuz every fuckin girl that wanted to "take me" wasn't my "type" and all the girls I wanted didn't give a shit about me. Lol 

    People say that I'm good looking but some times I get very pissed off bcuz of acne,they don't stop lol 

    This is pretty much my life and is the reason why online dating is horrific. Everyone I like doesn't like me, and I don't like anyone who approaches me XD 

     

    Maybe try joining some meetups so you can at least hang out with people who have similar interests? Sometimes just being around like-minded people, rather than aiming for a partner, is good enough :)

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  16. Posted

    9 hours ago, Euronymous said:

    never been in a long and serious relationship and i'm at my early 20's already

    it's been a while since i don't enjoy peoples company,i like to be in solitude,but...

    u know,humans weren't made to be completely alone forever.

     

    I hear you. You could always try something casual? You get that interaction but at the same time you get your own space? :)

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  17. Posted

    9 hours ago, Bear said:

    And how is that a problem? Then just dislike her.

     

    What if he goes out to get laid or just find a girl to take to in a club or bar and suddenly sees her sister in the same club? Because that's basically the same shit, and unless you're a bit of a freak and perverts there should be no problems. You just don't hit on your sister. Problem solved. Same with tinder. You just dislike your sisters profile and continue looking for whatever you look for.

     

     

    The state of human beings in 2019, man.

    Dude, not sure if it's your intention but you're coming across as mega hostile. It's almost as if you accidentally hit on your sister and you're trying to hide it XD 

     

    In all seriousness though, @Gesuwas just making an observation. She can't speak for the actions of other people. 

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  18. Posted

    2 hours ago, Gesu said:

    Not last night, but just now during my nap, I dreamt that there was this bright red bug in my flat. It wasn't huge, but it was bigger than most bugs I've encountered. Now, I don't like insects at the best of times, but as I mentioned, this one was bright red and considerably large, so I grabbed a dish towel and tried to hit it, but it seemed pretty resilient and kept jumping around (it moved like a flea but looked more like a big red roach). As I kept trying to hit it, I noticed that its face had morphed into this alien-like thing... it looked like ET. That scared the shite out of me, so I was just trying over and over again to kill this bastard, but it developed human facial expressions and sneered at me to taunt me. It cornered me (luckily against my door so I could have run out), but I didn't see what happened next as I just heard myself thinking "wake up, wake up, wake up". That was weird, but I'm glad my brain decided to wake me up at that point. I fucking hate insects!

     

    :tw_ant:

    Sounds like something straight out of a Junjo Ito manga O.O

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  19. Posted

    26 minutes ago, Gesu said:

    I tried it once, but I never met up with anyone and hid my profile within about an hour because:

    1. None of the guys looked to be my type.

    2. There was this annoying habit of people setting pictures of them with their friends as their profile pics (how do I know which one's them? And have they ever considered that maybe their friends don't want to be on their Tinder profile? -_-).

    3. I've heard too many horror stories about people matching with their relatives.

    I agree with 1 and 2... But 3? Seriously?! :o

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  23. Posted

    2 hours ago, plastic_rainbow said:

    can people just stop being greedy for money....my friend wants to keep her job cuz of the higher pay but i KNOW she's not happy with it. it's about an hour commute and she always comes home dirty with grime in her hair as she's a machine operator and the place she works at isn't the cleanest. yet, she isn't willing to sacrifice all that pay for a more moderate and cleaner job that pays just good enough to make a living, in other words the job i've been working at. i mean, she lives with her mom and sister so the rent shouldn't even cause a huge dent in her bank. plus she doesn't even have any loans to pay. she tells me that she wants to earn a lot so that she can both save and spend money at the same time, which looks to me more like spending than saving. well whatever, it's her life so i can't try to change her mind. it's all just kinda ridiculous to me though.

    Totally agree here. This is why I don't get people who spend more time working than with their family etc. Sure money is great for security, luxuries etc but if you can't be happy and enjoy life then what good is all that money? 

     

    If we truly get one shot at life, we may as well spend it doing what we love (providing it pays the bills!). 

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  25. Posted

    11 minutes ago, Ro plz said:

    Most of my favorite Lynch. songs are from their major era. The same goes for the GazettE. 

     

    Its a bit of a process at first however.

    Totally agree with you on both accounts. I Believe In Me is such a great major album! 

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