Ro plz 1290 Posted February 23, 2015 Do I sound weird if I say... none? Sex for me is about doing something intimate with someone you have intimate feelings for, not jumping on top of the next moving object, thrusting to completion, and changing the playlist. /Thread. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pretsy 1343 Posted February 23, 2015 Do I sound weird if I say... none? Sex for me is about doing something intimate with someone you have intimate feelings for, not jumping on top of the next moving object, thrusting to completion, and changing the playlist. Opinions. Everyone has them. I don't judge people for theirs, so please don't judge me about mine. I love music, and I love my girlfriend. For me, there's a time for both, and it's rarely together. That's all I have to say on this topic. People like you really contribute to the 'fun' part of our community (which is becoming more or less vague lately) is it really hard to "let it go" (dumb quote, inorite) and go with the flow (e.g. Tokage's comment should already hint that this is already tongue-in-cheek)? I highly doubt that OP, and other members for that matter, are really interested in someone's personal penchants for diddling or some serious lovemaking - all in all, I feel sorry 4 you if you find "sex" to be a taboo-ish topic no one should ever joke about. /openthread 2 VESSMIER and herpes reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VESSMIER 873 Posted February 23, 2015 Do I sound weird if I say... none? Sex for me is about doing something intimate with someone you have intimate feelings for, not jumping on top of the next moving object, thrusting to completion, and changing the playlist. Opinions. Everyone has them. I don't judge people for theirs, so please don't judge me about mine. I love music, and I love my girlfriend. For me, there's a time for both, and it's rarely together. That's all I have to say on this topic. I see the point you're making and of course I respect your opinion. However, what I don't have respect for is someone demanding not to be judged after having passed judgment on others (in an uncalled-for way at that). You simply cannot say that music generally trivializes sex or that it corrupts the quality of intimacy with another person. Equally, you cannot condemn people for listening to Rammstein's "Rein Raus" or brutal death or fuckin Mongolian throat singing while at it. Why? Because even that does not preclude that they have a relationship based on mutual respect and trust. Sex is not only about this grand spiritual experience of two souls intertwining bla bla... it is also about having fun, experimenting, with everyone involved enjoying it and not feeling subjugated or objectified but loved and appreciated. In fact, those things usually go together in a relationship, anyway. Please don't misunderstand: this is not me criticizing Shmilly's view on this topic in general, but him saying the stuff he said in the first quote. 2 Pretsy and RoseOfHizaki reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sentarou 112 Posted March 3, 2015 Actually had sex to the GazettE once. This girl asked me to put on some music before we got it on, so I started my audio player on my PC, pressed the play button and it just so happened that the last thing I listened to was the GazettE. That's the only time I've had music playing during sex, that I can think of at least. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RoseOfHizaki 131 Posted March 4, 2015 Sometimes you just need some music to set the mood... 2 ghost and VESSMIER reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nisimaldar 153 Posted March 6, 2015 I like listening to audio clips from live concerts because it feels like the crowd is cheering me on. 9 VESSMIER, CAT5, Ro plz and 6 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheStoic 176 Posted March 6, 2015 I don't go out of my way to make a sex playlist or anything, but I have had sex with music on several times, and often it was some sentimental white-guy and a guitar acoustic music that my wife enjoys. More than anything, instead of the music affecting the sex, the sex affects the music for me later, as now I have an emotional connection to many of those songs as they bring me back to those blissful moments. I don't think I could have meaningful sex to the music I typically like, as it makes for better workout music than music to set the mood. But to each their own ~ as long as love reigns and consent and pleasure are shared, if music is a catalyst that drives the passion - all the better. 1 VESSMIER reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vitne Eveille 65 Posted March 19, 2015 I've never "done it" with any VK going in the background, but Billy Idol, yes And it was pretty awesome 1 nullmoon reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diamondAss 114 Posted March 28, 2015 I think LUNA SEA's KISS song fits the bill well. http://youtu.be/GTXqCWRXjlI i agree on that one. but for love making, not dirty-sweaty-hot sex. for sex i´d rather pick some intense kiyoharu songs or 70s acid instrumentals aka porn music XD 1 nullmoon reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blackdoll 907 Posted June 4, 2015 i could get down to this like when the guy's echo part, ohhh yeah legoooo Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
emmny 4139 Posted June 4, 2015 yeah i play 9goats black out and cry a little a lot 3 nullmoon, kukew and leafwork reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hyura 465 Posted June 4, 2015 BOTH ARE FINE WITH ME 1 enyx reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
enyx 903 Posted June 4, 2015 BOTH ARE FINE WITH ME Pretty much this. Just go with whatever the mood calls for. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kukew 87 Posted June 4, 2015 I tought I was "the only one" who listened to the "weird music" on sex. You people have a really good taste for this activity. I'll just add a few ones. Talking only about VK songs in the "meaningless sex" I remember I've tried Deathgaze songs, D.I.D, awoi (red mutation), Sincrea (Silkspider), UnsraW, and endless more. And for love making, I'll just say once you know what the lyrics are actually saying it's reaaaaaaaaaally touching. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CAT5 9075 Posted June 8, 2015 1 beni reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Number Girl 48 Posted June 10, 2015 For getting in the romantic/sexy mood? Hell yes! But when I'm actually having sex I don't like music playing as, quite frankly, I get too distracted. However, last Halloween my SO and I wanted to experiment with different atmospheres and made a sex music playlist just to see what it did for us. Probably the best choice song I selected was by Washed Out "You and I." Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lestat 2167 Posted June 11, 2015 No experience with sex at all, so can't judge or give an opinion. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stylelover 1086 Posted June 11, 2015 Thanks for the meaningful input. and i dont really have a preference i guess. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tokage 5930 Posted June 11, 2015 btw everyone in this thread is going to hell 3 Pretsy, PsychoΔelica and Takadanobabaalien reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
beni 2149 Posted June 11, 2015 2 digi and VESSMIER reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
efuru 255 Posted June 22, 2015 Soul, RnB and light Pop is good for the mood. Can't really focus on the music during sex ...this. One time I had sex to azealia banks's fantasia mixtape. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
