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Status Updates posted by patientZERO
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Bro.
https://page.auctions.yahoo.co.jp/jp/auction/w216806017
Hop in on it when the bidding is low if you're interested.
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I found a live video of nurié that they shot in the middle of A FUCKING MALL! That takes a lot of balls.
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I have an interview at a temp agency on Monday, but after losing so much weight, my dress pants fit like miniature skirts for each leg. That's not a good look for a dude, so it looks like I need to get some new pants.
Ugh. I hate shopping for clothing.
On a positive note, I put all my JILUKA and DEVILOOF CDs in protective sleeves and I love the uniformity of them all. And now they can be displayed with their obi (though DEVILOOF's obi look like poo).
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I thought I was the only one as OCD as this with CDs.
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"Vk is like literally THE ONLY thing i spend money on during that timeperiod... like i don't buy any DVDs, Manga, Video Games,...."
@VkBrutaliaN, are you me?
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@Komorebioh you are of the same kind huh?!^^
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I'm going to lose my mind ... iTunes did this thing where it would just randomly decide to end tracks imported into the library and move to the next track. Somehow, people figured out how to fix this, by playing the song for a fraction of a second, then closing deleting the track and re-importing it. Some dude created a script to do this for you and it seemed to work like a charm.
Now I've updated my macbook to Catalina and iTunes doesn't exist anymore, thus replaced by the Music app. So now the script doesn't work and now everything I put in my library does the same thing. I'm losing my shit ... nothing I add to my library will play properly.
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They think they're making it easier to integrate things to your iphone, but honestly it seems to be getting worse and worse with every "update."
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The Xenomorphic shirt and towel got added back to JILUKA's webstore, alongside their last rubber bracelet. Just in case you were interested.
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... the "new" rip of the DIMLIM single is just the same crappy barely 128kbps transcoded ... Why people? WHY?!
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All of the censoring in the DADAROMA Live DVD is laughable. Damn are they good live, but why censor every little thing in YOUR OWN RELEASE?
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BABYMETAL was a ton of fun last night. The fans are generally super chill and the opener was surprisingly entertaining. All in all, a great day.
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Being told you need to move during this pandemic is probably one of the biggest dick moves you could do to someone ...
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Doku is going to have a "serious announcement" tomorrow. I'm hoping it's a new single because I really need more music from them and NOTHING ELSE! Please don't breakup.
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Here's a link to a higher def image of meidara in case you want to have a not-so-pixelated avatar.
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Holy shit dude, 大好き is great! There's a copy on Mercari for 4,500Y. Please tell me you didn't have to pay damn near $50 for it. It honestly might be their best song they've released in ages. The breakdown got me DROPPING!
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I don't know what to do ... my girlfriend of three years told me she really has no interest to ever get married. Happy Valentine's Day. I feel like I've wasted a lot of time, effort, money, and emotion. I'm not worth it.
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CAT5 put it way more eloquently than I can, but I agree...I don't ever understand the point of 'trying' to make things work by forcing square pegs into round holes for the rest of your life in misery missing out on what you really wanted.
To me, someone must love an equal amount that I do them, and if it was socially acceptable I'd definitely be one of those people that just delivers a written list of things that are most important / non-negotiable to me up front and want to know the same of them, because why not? Shouldn't utmost honesty be the foundation of being bound with another person. Idealistic, whatever, but you should never compromise your own ideals, it'll only rot away whatever love you had initially until it's an empty shell and the partnership becomes just one more disaster you can see in public (or at dysfunctional holidays) every day.
While it's tempting to want to please the person you love above yourself, I don't recommend it, especially not for something you hold so seriously.
This is from someone who cannot care less for institutional marriage, only for the practice of being bonded together that transcends state. Which seems to be very important to you, and at three years...it really isn't that long, there are many many more people out there who holds your ideals as seriously as you do. Good luck -
I'm sorry to hear that mate. I totally feel you. However, I honestly think you shouldnt force your way of thinking to your gf. The idea of marriage should come from 2 parties.
I know it's a harsh truth, but rn you have 2 options:
1. Stop right away before it hurts you more later in the future.
2. Keep going dont give up if you think she's worth fighting for.
Nobody else here or in the world can decide those options for you. You are the one who comprehends the whole situation and your own feeling. So take a breather, give yourself time to re-think everything and then make a decision. Insert image from URL
Hope for the best, mate.
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Thank you for taking the time out of your day to write all that down for me CAT. It's definitely what I needed to hear and now I have a lot of thinking to do. I woke up to a message from her saying how she loved me and can't imagine her life without me, but is afraid of getting married and having kids because once you do that you don't have an escape (I'm paraphrasing). I still am a bit in the dark at how she feels as she hasn't been able to really explain herself clearly, but we plan on having a sit-down conversation about it all tomorrow. I'm going to explain myself better and say that if she has any doubts on whether she wants to spend the rest of her life with me, then she should maybe spend some time without me to think it over. It's not like I proper proposed to her, this was just the conversation before I should really start planning my life around that, but I was thinking about proposing soon (this year) and now it's all thrown out of whack.
Maybe I put too much thought and effort and weight into this relationship, and that's partially my fault, as I've really only had her on my mind in regards to our future. I wasn't think about bettering myself or even where I would want to be in my life in the future. I just knew that I wanted her to be a part of it.
Thank you again, all, for your kind (and sometimes harsh, but definitely needed) words. This situation is still raw and still new and all still shaky. But I feel better about it all now than I did before. Nervous, but better.
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I FINALLY have internet back after having a massive wind storm blow it out FIVE DAMN DAYS AGO ...
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I have been blasting どく into my ear holes all day today at work. I'm hoping this band stays around, because I seriously dig them.
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I just completed the Pokedex in Pokemon Shield!! 109 hours and 26 minutes and my first Pokedex completion since Yellow.
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I just decided to get SARIGIA's single, so I'll have them around Valentine's Day. I'm hoping these dudes continue to put out the same Gazette-ish sound because I'm digging it.
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I just got laid off. And I'm moving into a new apartment on my own in six days. I don't know how I'm going to stay alive.
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I just got my rejection letter from JET ... I don't know what I'm going to do with my life now.
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If you're looking for an ALT job, try an ALT placement company, like Interac - https://www.interacnetwork.com/recruit/
As said above, now is just the right time to apply.
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I just got tickets for Crystal Lake's first US tour. I'm contemplating going to at least one other show, but I'm also moving around that time and not sure what my financial situation will be. But fuck it. I'm stoked for now!
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I just realized I can't go to the BABYMETAL show in LA, but I've got tickets ... and nobody wants to buy them. Looks like I'm out $200.
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I just realized JILUKA is playing a 2man with Breakin' Holiday in Shinjuku the day I arrive in Japan ... but my plane lands a half hour after the show starts ... FML.
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I kinda want to do some of the tourist-y stuff. I want to go to Akiba, but the person I'm visiting isn't into that sort of thing, so I think I'll probably go alone. I'm looking forward to eating all the foods I miss! Okonomiyaki, omurice, gyudon, that sort of thing. I didn't know about the metropolitan building, though. Maybe I'll do that instead of Skytree or Tokyo Tower. I also want to go to Gundam Base, but I just feel bad because she isn't interested in a lot of the things I want to do and I don't want to make her feel bad.
Sorry ... I'm probably saying too much. Haha!
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Nah, don't apologize.
I've traveled alone and accompanied and both have pros and cons.
I suggest you plan stuff together like certain trips and meals, but also give yourselves time to enjoy your own interests on your own. Splitting during a trip isn't bad at all and it can be even for best sometimes. It's easy to get into each other's nerves when traveling with someone.
Get a couple of cheap prepaid simcards so you can stay in touch when splitting and don't be afraid to enjoy a few hours on your own
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She's got work during the days on the first week, so I'll have all that time to myself. I'm hoping to get all the nerdy stuff I want to do out of the way while she's working and then we'll have the evenings/nights together and then on the second week, we'll be together the whole time. She's okay with going to some lives (she just thinks the music I listen to is noisy) so that'll be fine.
I'm going to try ask her to get a SIM card for myself for the two weeks (she lives in Tokyo) while I'm there, but don't know if I should go SIM or pocket wifi, since the last phone I had wouldn't take the SIM card and I was boned. I've got a while to go before I go over, so I'm planning as much as I can in advance.