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I think a lot of people think that those who have been abused need to forgive in order to 'truly move on', but a lot of the times that's not necessarily true...
- September 17, 2019
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1. platy
  
  It's healthier to recognise your feelings and be at peace with them imo, regardless of what they are.
  
  September 17, 2019
  
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2. colorful人生
  
  Can't speak for everyone, but trying to ignore or put aside your feelings is always a stopgap measure. While forgiveness can be one method, there are many other ways to confront your feelings; I think confrontation (internal or external) has to be one of the steps to healing.
  
  Also recognition/realization > rationalization.
  
  September 17, 2019
  
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