Gesu

And today, on "let's find something to cancel and get angry about" 

this is why i don't have twitter.

People aren't allowed to have a personal preference anymore.

u and ur cIS PRIVILEGE!!!!!

Congrats~ btw, word of warning if you get a lip ring like I did about three years back; do not bite it when it still has the ball in. It might come out and you probably won't be able to put it back. Also, lip rings are really painful, so you most likely won't even want to get it redone. Either that, or I'm just a big wuss. >.<

Thank ya! Yeah, I’ve been bedside for close to a week. Total lameness =__=.

It was a 3 hour live, but they didn’t play The Farthest, yomi no yuzuriha etc. Hopefully next week’s setlist is different. But I can’t imagine them coming back... all their music tastes are so different now

Disappointing tbh

I just hope the flash reunion goes so well they'll consider coming back

マンマミーア！

We can feel powerless about comforting people,believe me,i've been there,on both sides (trying to comfort and in need to be comforted),and sincerely there's not much to worry about.
if you can't be the "wise one",just show that you care wholeheartedly.Know that sometimes people know exactly what's going on and exactly what they need to hear,but words don't mean shit at that especific time,so demonstrating your feelings is enough.a hug,a look in the eye,a smile,etc...
 

Glad to hear you're feeling good right now. If you're not, you know you can message me. Like I said, I'm not very good at comforting people if I don't know the right thing to say, but I can try my best.

@Gesu i would say the same,but right now i'm feeling good.
you know how it is,sometimes you're ok,sometimes you feel like shit,sometimes you feel WORSE than shit...just life.

Thank you, that really means a lot. Speaking of, how are things lately? You don't have to say too much if you don't want to.

Nope, there are several more beyond supreme that no one has reached yet (except Trombe).

i'll just take this chance to say that you are a really good person
i didn't forget the nice response/interaction you and others gave me here.

Now I feel bad for butchering the album title since it has such a cool meaning with lots of thought put into it ^^; Thank you for letting us know the right way of saying it @yomii XD
 
o_o That's how you pronounce Zyean's name? Wow. Things I'll never get right about visual kei, lol. 

@Komorebi right? and there's something very cool about how the word "chedoara" looks! although i wonder how "ki" changed to "ke" and then to "che" in mind of whoever made up the album name

@Gesu I still refuse to call him Jane LOL
@yomii That meaning is pretty cool 😮

I feel you ;w; Sometimes, I'm not sure what to say when people feel down/angry/etc., and it makes the whole situation awkward since the other party is expecting me to say something. Hope you can find a solution that works for both parties in your situation! (I'm so bad at giving advice ^^;)

i think if you're really close they should understand that's just the way you are...or they may not know it now, because well people can't read minds, but if you tell them once the way you deal with such situations they will understand and accept it〜

Thanks, I'll try that. So far, I've just tried telling them there's nothing I can do for them (that is, if there really is nothing I can do for them... I try to help when I can), but I'm sure there's another way I could feel a bit more useful without seeming dickish.

so if relationship has to be balanced and your friends are too opened while you're too closed, guess you have to, like, "occupy more space" in those relationships? to suppress their domination by strengthening your presence.

Is it "cheh-doe-ah-rah"?
Also, don't worry about it. I thought Zyean from JILUKA was "zye-EEN" for the longest time until I found out it was "jane".

Could be that. I am a logician, and people who are fuelled by logic don't really see much point in saying everything's going to be okay if no-one's gonna try and even make it okay. I know that probably sounds a bit pessimistic, but I just can't deal with people expecting me to listen if they want me to sit there and keep my mouth shut and my hand on their shoulder. I don't know, maybe I'm just selfish, but I know a guy who used to be a therapist and he said that all relationships have to be balanced, so maybe I just don't like that lack of balance a lot of my close friendships tend to have. They always get like that when I get closer to people... they open up to me emotionally because they see me as easy to talk to, but I think they get so open that they want me to be closed.

Could be that. I am a logician, and people who are fuelled by logic don't really see much point in saying everything's going to be okay if no-one's gonna try and even make it okay. I know that probably sounds a bit pessimistic, but I just can't deal with people expecting me to listen if they want me to sit there and keep my mouth shut and my hand on their shoulder. I don't know, maybe I'm just selfish, but I know a guy who used to be a therapist and he said that all relationships have to be balanced, so maybe I just don't like that lack of balance a lot of my close friendships tend to have. They always get like that when I get closer to people... they open up to me emotionally because they see me as easy to talk to, but I think they get so open that they want me to be closed.