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Everything posted by Gesu
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It's gone midnight and I'm eating Betty Crocker straight from the tub while watching YouTube. I am one unhealthy fuck.
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Why am I so bad at comforting people? I can't listen to someone without feeling like I have to say something back, and if I don't know what to say, I feel useless. It wouldn't be so bad, but everyone just kind of expects me to "be there" for them when I know I'm not compassionate enough for that. Maybe I should re-evaluate whether I really want to become a therapist. I want to work with children, so I guess that'd be a bit easier as children generally tend to want a straightforward solution as opposed to the "there, there, it's going to be okay" that a lot of adults want (you'd think it'd be the other way around, but it's not), but it still wouldn't be totally easy for me.
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We can feel powerless about comforting people,believe me,i've been there,on both sides (trying to comfort and in need to be comforted),and sincerely there's not much to worry about.
if you can't be the "wise one",just show that you care wholeheartedly.Know that sometimes people know exactly what's going on and exactly what they need to hear,but words don't mean shit at that especific time,so demonstrating your feelings is enough.a hug,a look in the eye,a smile,etc...
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Yes, hello, how can I go back in time and change my actions? I know I shouldn't mess with the space-time continuum, but AAAAAAAAA
Basically, I'm going with my grandmother and my brother to my favourite dessert bar tomorrow, only... in January, I went there with a friend, and we gave my number to a waiter who never texted me. I am going to die of embarrassment tomorrow! AAAAAAAAA
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Well, it's been 4 months and I suppose that a lot of customers walk through that place and they might not remember
and y'know, might be for the best, cuz I was on the receiving end as a bartender, like two years back, and I ended up being stalked for 6 months after it didnt work out
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