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I just got offered a full time job and my first thought was "I'm still going to Japan in April so take it or leave it". Should I set my priorities straight?

You're only a real hillbilly when you ride your horse to the airport, wearing a cowboy hat.

Mmm love when people think saying racial slurs casually is totally fine.
 
My first boyfriend used to constantly say the N word, especially towards his black coworkers. I was mortified that he thought that was okay. That, and he allowed his coworkers and others to call him a ch*nk. o_O I had to sit him down and tell him why he shouldn't say the N word or allow people to call him racial slurs. 
 
I've heard a lot of people say ch*nk and not think of it as a racial slur and it's always bothered me. I had a classmate in high school who got extremely visibly angry/crying upset over being called that by our classmates to the point he knocked desks over. Always stuck in my memory. (also yah my hometown is racist af)
 
I swear a lot. A lot. I've never once thought saying a racial slur was okay. Like, why?

Depending on how this goes, I am going to consider having a daily pint mid way through work everyday

look at your natal chart, your moon (and the closest 3-4 planets typically) are p. influential on your character :< maybe you have a mars in its weak spot or whatever, downplaying the Aries features. I don't know too many ~cusp~ people who are born on the edge between signs, maybe it's a thing in your case too.
 
 
idk I like Leos but out of my current clique I don't want to be super close to any of them for various reasons (it's crushing hard on capricorns time for me circa this year.)

I CANNOT believe I really just got into an argument with a bunch of white girls from England about how the N word is not about them, so just because they think it's funny means they can use it as a casual cuss word. LIKE WHAT YOU GUYS LTERALLY HAD A PERSON THAT THAT WORD WOULD APPLY TO STEP IN AND SHOW THAT THEY DONT LIKE IT BEING USED THAT LOOSELY AND YOU ARE STILL LIKE NAH ITS OK?????

"If you knew the history of VK then you would understand why people are obsessed with the gazette" "If the gazette never existed mejibray wouldn't exist"
 
HA

I went to get a frappuccino today and my barista accidentally drizzled caramel on my drink, threw the bottle down, and looked completely done with life.
 
Same, same.
 
Pumpkin spice tastes really good with caramel. 

Mmm love when people think saying racial slurs casually is totally fine.
 
My first boyfriend used to constantly say the N word, especially towards his black coworkers. I was mortified that he thought that was okay. That, and he allowed his coworkers and others to call him a ch*nk. o_O I had to sit him down and tell him why he shouldn't say the N word or allow people to call him racial slurs. 
 
I've heard a lot of people say ch*nk and not think of it as a racial slur and it's always bothered me. I had a classmate in high school who got extremely visibly angry/crying upset over being called that by our classmates to the point he knocked desks over. Always stuck in my memory. (also yah my hometown is racist af)
 
I swear a lot. A lot. I've never once thought saying a racial slur was okay. Like, why?

I went to get a frappuccino today and my barista accidentally drizzled caramel on my drink, threw the bottle down, and looked completely done with life.
 
Same, same.
 
Pumpkin spice tastes really good with caramel. 

I totally get that. Some of my friends who have talked to me openly about being asexual also had a hard time accepting it. 
 
I'm still on the fence on whether I am but I think it's pretty clear I am to an extent, but don't feel the need to label myself. But it's good to at least know because of personal circumstances I've been in and people not understanding. I had an ex constantly tell me he thought I was and it was pretty hurtful how he went about doing so. It's also taken me a long time to accept I ain't yer average heteronormative straight kid, and then further complicated by the fact I don't feel sexual attraction very often if at all.

I guess that could be a possibility. I've looked a little into it and it does seem quite fitting for my situation, though I'm still not sure how comfortable I feel with that. I know there's nothing wrong with being asexual, but it just somehow feels a bit hard to accept.

Do you think that you might possibly be asexual? I don't think it's weird at all, I've had quite a few close friends who feel the same as you do and they are often frustrated by it. I'm possibly ace myself but I experience romantic attraction. 

I've never dated, never kissed, hugged or even held hands with anyone. Lately I've been thinking though that it would be nice to be in a relationship, to have someone you'd really love and who would love you back. Someone you could trust, someone you could think about the future with, someone you could, well, cuddle and make out with. However, there's just one little problem about it, I guess. I just really don't know whether I actually like guys or girls. Or if I like both. Or if I like neither. I don't really know how it's even possible not to know, but I just can't remember that I would've ever had an actual crush on anyone.  I do find some guys and some girls "aesthetically attractive" but that's pretty much it, I never feel anything more towards them. Though I'd really want to. I'd really want a relationship but it's a bit hard to search for one if I never get that interested in anyone. It's really weird.

There's a fetish for Band-Aids. 

Ugh god IDEK why Kiyoharu is so eager to crank out horrible shit for every tribute album under the sun. He must really need that coin.
 
 

yassss i knew mucc would nail 3月5日
the rest doesn't sound too offensive either, waiting to hear the full versions.
ok no i just listened to the whole thing and LM.C are being very offensive there.

i liked mucc, the novembers, pelican fanclub, and kishidan. the rest were.....meh

I think a lot of people I talk to in person think I'm slow or maybe slightly special needs, but in reality I just have ZERO idea how to talk to people.

If he didn't come across as a stereotypical basic white girl, I probably would've proposed by now.

um marry him

I've been using Tinder for over a year and have yet to have someone be a douche towards me. I never receive negative messages, no one asks me for hookups, if someone does say something offensive to me I call them out and  they apologize instead of getting defensive. Generally receive more respect from random weirdos than I did from my exes. Wtf? Although they're all kind of flakey af and... weird. 
 
If one more guy tells me I'm "cute as a button" though, I'm gonna throw hands. 
 
I did add one dude I think is super cute to social media but we haven't met up yet and I mostly just want to steal his teacup pig. He dresses it up. 

TOGENKYO covers
 
Limited edition

 
Regular edition

Ehm, wow. I'm 99 % sure that is not allowed over here (that doesn't maen that companies don't try, also nearly once happened to a friend of mine.) I'm really sorry this happened to you. Please accept this (slightly awkward) virtual hug! ; )