CAT5 9075 Posted June 9, 2015 NOTE: This is quiz is for both single ppl and those in relationships. In addition, your love language isn't limited to just romantic relationships, but can be attributed to all relationships. So everyone can feel free to take this quiz. At any rate, I thought this might be something the forum could do. This quiz is based off the book "The 5 Love Languages" by Gary D Chapman. Basically, Chapman examined the way humans give and receive love across the globe and was able to categorize those interactions into the "The 5 love Languages". To take the quiz, go here: http://www.5lovelanguages.com/ Click on "Discover your Love Language", fill out the info quickly, and take the quiz which is about 30 short questions. When you finish, you'll get your results, and a quick summary of each love language. The highest score indicates your primary love language (the highest score is 12). It’s not uncommon to have two high scores, although one language does have a slight edge for most people. That just means two languages are important to you. The lower scores indicate those languages you seldom use to communicate love and which probably don’t affect you very much on an emotional level. Learn more about your primary love language and how to put it to use next to the corresponding badge below. My results: Your Scores 10 Quality Time 7 Acts of Service 6 Physical Touch 6 Words of Affirmation 1 Receiving Gifts 2 ghost and beni reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JukaForever 758 Posted June 9, 2015 9 Physical Touch 8 Quality Time 5 Acts of Service 4 Receiving Gifts 4 Words of Affirmation Wasn't sure if "loved one" was supposed to be a girlfriend/boyfriend type of love or family member love, I took the quiz with the former in mind. I know for sure I don't touch family members that much. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jun_ 383 Posted June 9, 2015 9 Quality Time 7 Acts of Service 7 Physical Touch 4 Receiving Gifts 3 Words of Affirmation I knew this would be my result...the quality time one XD As a pisces, I always like people who tells me that I'm doing things right or they're proud of me...unfortunatelly, being a piscian makes me feel bad when someone isn't really good :c... But I really liked this quiz :D Thanks, Cat ♥ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
beni 2149 Posted June 9, 2015 Love these kind of quizzes! My results: 11 Quality Time 8 Words of Affirmation 6 Acts of Service 3 Physical Touch 2 Receiving Gifts Pretty accurate I'd say. Wish the 'receiving gifts' was a 1 and the 'Acts of Service' was lower. Surprised with the touch one though, since I am pretty touchy feely even with friends and family. x'D Guess I'll have to take it again in a couple years' time, aha. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lestat 2167 Posted June 9, 2015 9 Words of Affirmation 8 Quality Time 7 Acts of Service 6 Receiving Gifts Physical Touch Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important—hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten. You thrive on hearing kind and encouraging words that build you up. This is quite correct. I generally do not enjoy physical contact all that much, however a zero wouldn't be entirely true either. I think my language of love would actually be language itself. I am a sucker for poetry, purple prose, for angst hidden in words of love and the enticing thrill that comes from language all by itself. A well-structured and formulated formation of words seduces me more than corporeal acts. A friend used to have her way with words with me, I can safely say that I literally went mental over this. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nyasagi 259 Posted June 13, 2015 9 Quality Time 9 Words of Affirmation 8 Physical Touch 3 Receiving Gifts 1 Acts of Service Hmmm, when I look at the results of people here, quality time seems the most important. To me it's important in general, there's nothing worse when I hang out with someone and they just pay attention to their phone. When I'm with my mom and her phone calls, it immediately pisses me off, because she sometimes starts chatting and doesn't care about our quality time anymore. When you're spending your time with anyone, you should pay attention to that person ONLY (unless the phone call is VERY important, then it's understandable). Words of Affirmation scored high with me, because I'm an insecure little thing, so I have to be told I mean a lot to someone... but only if it's 100% honest! Physical touch would just make me happy. These results are pretty accurate, I care about being around the person, but I can take care of my stuff and small gifts are ok (to think about the person when they aren't with me and hold the item as something lucky, for example), but it's a low priority thing. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
paradoxal 2948 Posted June 13, 2015 9 Quality Time 7 Acts of Service 7 Physical Touch 7 Words of Affirmation 0 Receiving Gifts Yeah, I don't really need any gifts... XD I love spending time with my fiancé, even if it's just something completely normal - like cooking or folding the laundry together. I also love hugging and kissing, and of course it's nice to hear him say how much he appreciates me. Also as we live together, it's nice when he does a task for me, like does the dishes while I clean something else. There's no better way to show your love than do the dishes 2 kyoselflove and nullmoon reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kyoselflove 2680 Posted June 13, 2015 10 Acts of Service 8 Words of Affirmation 7 Quality Time 3 Receiving Gifts 2 Physical Touch Haha, do shit for me bitch but don't touch me xD Ahhh, love. But yeah, I really liked things being done for me but I also love getting gifts (even though my gifts are games and CDs haha, not flowers and shit) and I hate being touched, and love to hear sweet nothings murmured to me. Quality time is nice. 1 paradoxal reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
saishuu 3220 Posted June 13, 2015 11 Quality Time7 Physical Touch6 Words of Affirmation4 Acts of Service2 Receiving Gifts Pretty much what I expected. Gifts most definitely aren't a big deal; they're fun to receive every once in a while as something to think 'oh, he/she thought of me, that's cute', but there's a lot more that's more important. Spending time with someone, getting to know them intimately in a day-to-day context and enjoying their company whenever possible is what relationships are about to me. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bear 1817 Posted June 13, 2015 11 Quality Time 10 Physical Touch 4 Acts of Service 4 Words of Affirmation 1 Receiving Gifts Allright. Spot n about receiving gifts. I fucking hate gifts. I'm thiiiiis fucking close to get violent whenever I receive a gift. Ugh. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
enyx 903 Posted June 13, 2015 10 Acts of Service 6 Words of Affirmation 5 Physical Touch 5 Quality Time 4 Receiving Gifts So many people seem to appreciate quality time a lot. For me, too much of that quickly leads me to feel smothered. Anyway, I thought affirmation would be a little higher but on the whole I'm not too surprised with how it turned out. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Replicant 133 Posted June 13, 2015 11 Acts of Service 8 Quality Time 7 Words of Affirmation 2 Physical Touch2 Receiving Gifts Pretty spot on. I can't stand being touched for the most part; I'm really flinchy about being touched. Gifts are hit or miss. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MaikoMizu 167 Posted June 14, 2015 9 Words of Affirmation 8 Physical Touch 7 Quality Time 6 Acts of Service 0 Receiving Gifts The top result is accurate but it depends on the person and my relationshop between them for the most part. With the physical touch, that'd be something that I'd love if I were in a relationship. Physical touch gives me a feeling of warmth and sincerity somehow. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
seratonin 43 Posted June 30, 2015 Quality Time 8 Physical Touch 7 Acts of Service 6 Receiving Gifts 6 Words of Affirmation 3 I filled this out for a bf/gf relationship. I looooooove touching and spending time together, but too much of it at once loses the amazing feeling of comfort. Actions also mean the world to me. I'm surprised "words" aren't 0, I don't need words at all, just as long as the person isn't telling me to each shit, I'm fine lol Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
herpes 1597 Posted July 4, 2015 11 Receiving Gifts 7 Acts of Service 6 Words of Affirmation 4 Physical Touch 2 Quality Time ya'll needy 1 CAT5 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Elazmus 1873 Posted July 12, 2015 Your Scores 8 Acts of Service 8 Quality Time 7 Words of Affirmation 4 Physical Touch 3 Receiving Gifts God damn I've been spoiled Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ghost 2687 Posted July 14, 2015 11 Words of Affirmation 10 Quality Time 5 Physical Touch 2 Acts of Service 2 Receiving Gifts Tell me I'm pretty. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
efuru 255 Posted July 14, 2015 10 Words of Affirmation 8 Quality Time 6 Receiving Gifts 3 Acts of Service 3 Physical Touch So basically I'm insecure and need constant reminder I'm important to you. lololol Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Delkmiroph 1649 Posted July 31, 2015 11 Receiving Gifts 7 Acts of Service 6 Words of Affirmation 4 Physical Touch 2 Quality Time ya'll needy The same of me hahaha 11 Physical Touch 7 Words of Affirmation 6 Acts of Service 4 Receiving Gifts 2 Quality Time Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Deathtopi4 428 Posted July 31, 2015 11 Words of Affirmation 10 Quality Time 6 Physical Touch 2 Receiving Gifts 1 Acts of Service seems accurate Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shir0 1303 Posted July 31, 2015 8 Physical Touch 8 Quality Time 7 Words of Affirmation 6 Acts of Service 1 Reserving Gifts ^ accurate lol Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
clow_eriol 240 Posted July 31, 2015 9 Quality Time7 Acts of Service7 Physical Touch4 Receiving Gifts3 Words of Affirmation I have to say that it's pretty accurate Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CaRaN 212 Posted August 6, 2015 10 Quality Time 7 Physical Touch 6 Acts of Service 5 Words of Affirmation 2 Receiving Gifts 11 Quality Time7 Physical Touch6 Words of Affirmation4 Acts of Service2 Receiving Gifts Pretty much what I expected. Gifts most definitely aren't a big deal; they're fun to receive every once in a while as something to think 'oh, he/she thought of me, that's cute', but there's a lot more that's more important. Spending time with someone, getting to know them intimately in a day-to-day context and enjoying their company whenever possible is what relationships are about to me. I couldn't agree more Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
usuxorz 30 Posted August 9, 2015 9 Acts of Service8 Quality Time6 Physical Touch5 Words of Affirmation2 Receiving Gifts For the first few questions I had any romantic relationship in mind, then realized that I should probably answer with my boyfriend in mind instead. My boyfriend LOVES to spend, spend, spend, spend so much that it's become a problem in the relationship. ((Stop BUYING me shit and start DOING shit!)) And that question where one choice was to NOT be interuppted while talking? Yeah, I didn't need to look at the second option. *cough* So I took it again! This time without my boyfriend in mind at all. Just look at the difference..... 8 Physical Touch8 Quality Time6 Acts of Service5 Words of Affirmation3 Receiving Gifts Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Komorebi 2193 Posted August 12, 2016 10 Quality Time 9 Receiving Gifts 6 Words of Affirmation 5 Acts of Service 0 Physical Touch Doesn't surprise me at all since I hate being touched, even by my best friends, and I love when my friends give me food XD my best friend is often busy and he knows I'm happy with just a cookie or something edible like that instead of spending long hours with me haha Share this post Link to post Share on other sites