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Now I feel bad for butchering the album title since it has such a cool meaning with lots of thought put into it ^^; Thank you for letting us know the right way of saying it @yomii XD
 
o_o That's how you pronounce Zyean's name? Wow. Things I'll never get right about visual kei, lol. 

because it comes from kidoairaku, the word that means the whole range of emotions

Now the writting in separate syllables makes a bit more sense. Barely lol.
I'd love to ask them that.
 

@Komorebi right? and there's something very cool about how the word "chedoara" looks! although i wonder how "ki" changed to "ke" and then to "che" in mind of whoever made up the album name

@Gesu I still refuse to call him Jane LOL
@yomii That meaning is pretty cool 😮

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it's k not ch.........

i think if you're really close they should understand that's just the way you are...or they may not know it now, because well people can't read minds, but if you tell them once the way you deal with such situations they will understand and accept it〜

Thanks, I'll try that. So far, I've just tried telling them there's nothing I can do for them (that is, if there really is nothing I can do for them... I try to help when I can), but I'm sure there's another way I could feel a bit more useful without seeming dickish.

so if relationship has to be balanced and your friends are too opened while you're too closed, guess you have to, like, "occupy more space" in those relationships? to suppress their domination by strengthening your presence.

aaaand there's my daily learning. 🤔

Wait... how is it pronounced?

Is it "cheh-doe-ah-rah"?
Also, don't worry about it. I thought Zyean from JILUKA was "zye-EEN" for the longest time until I found out it was "jane".

Could be that. I am a logician, and people who are fuelled by logic don't really see much point in saying everything's going to be okay if no-one's gonna try and even make it okay. I know that probably sounds a bit pessimistic, but I just can't deal with people expecting me to listen if they want me to sit there and keep my mouth shut and my hand on their shoulder. I don't know, maybe I'm just selfish, but I know a guy who used to be a therapist and he said that all relationships have to be balanced, so maybe I just don't like that lack of balance a lot of my close friendships tend to have. They always get like that when I get closer to people... they open up to me emotionally because they see me as easy to talk to, but I think they get so open that they want me to be closed.

because it comes from kidoairaku, the word that means the whole range of emotions

it's k not ch.........

because it comes from kidoairaku, the word that means the whole range of emotions

because it comes from kidoairaku, the word that means the whole range of emotions

i feel you 100%, as you can see i even responded to the particular problem of how you're gonna be a therapist, not to the more emotional part of how you're not good at comforting people...i thought i was an unsympathetic beast, nice to know there are such people too and they are not really bad lol
does it have something to do with our mayers-briggs personality type btw?

it's k not ch.........

They don't mollycoddle, but people expect you to do that in day-to-day life if they're feeling down/depressed. Unfortunately, I can't do that because I don't have the patience. I just need to provide people with a solution, and if I can't, then I'll direct them to someone who can. I don't know what that makes me, but I'm definitely not as kind as the people who can sit there and just listen. They probably think I'm victim-blaming or something... not that I'm trying to. I don't get angry at people for having problems; I just can't deal with them if I don't have a solution to them.

do therapists comfort their clients? i know that they don't give advice, but i thought they don't say something like "it's going to be okay" either~

You know a blogspot is old when the dl-sections link to megaupload and rapidshare.

Oh yeah her last album was def. pretty good. Didn't hear the latest single, but in general, I feel like she's been making some questionable decisions this past decade, so it's left me cautiously optimistic is all ^^

why? her latest album was pretty good i think, and her latest single was too~ new album cover feels somehow strange tho