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secret_no_03 got a reaction from TheZigzagoon in Post your "UNPOPULAR" music opinions!
PSC circa 2003-2006 was the best time for the GazettE, MIYAVI, and pretty much every band that was on that label back then.
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secret_no_03 reacted to spockitty in Visual kei among friends
I do know batsu but nah, it was a smaller forum that went on for several years and then died in flames of internal drama. I still follow some of the members I used to be friends with on social media, but I couldn't even tell you the name of it at this point ^^;
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secret_no_03 reacted to Masato in Japanese Anti-Feminism
Well, they do have the anti-high heel movement now.... 😅
That is a start
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secret_no_03 got a reaction from Doesn'tEvenGoHere in Visual kei among friends
In HS I had one friend who loved X Japan, one was a metal head and loved stuff like BFMV and kinda liked the GazettE and the other who was more grunge liked the pillows. Everyone else thought it was Chinese rather than Japanese. Now, nearly 30, those friends are long gone, and the only person I talk to on a regular basis doesn't care about that sort of thing as that's not what we bond over. I've always been a loner and it's very much true that as the older you get it's harder to form new friendships, but over time you get used to not having friends and those you do you tend to only initiate when you have something to tell them, otherwise you just let them contact you first which means that you could go anywhere from a week to a month or more without speaking.
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secret_no_03 got a reaction from Bangyanico in Visual kei among friends
In HS I had one friend who loved X Japan, one was a metal head and loved stuff like BFMV and kinda liked the GazettE and the other who was more grunge liked the pillows. Everyone else thought it was Chinese rather than Japanese. Now, nearly 30, those friends are long gone, and the only person I talk to on a regular basis doesn't care about that sort of thing as that's not what we bond over. I've always been a loner and it's very much true that as the older you get it's harder to form new friendships, but over time you get used to not having friends and those you do you tend to only initiate when you have something to tell them, otherwise you just let them contact you first which means that you could go anywhere from a week to a month or more without speaking.
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secret_no_03 got a reaction from Miku70 in Visual kei among friends
In HS I had one friend who loved X Japan, one was a metal head and loved stuff like BFMV and kinda liked the GazettE and the other who was more grunge liked the pillows. Everyone else thought it was Chinese rather than Japanese. Now, nearly 30, those friends are long gone, and the only person I talk to on a regular basis doesn't care about that sort of thing as that's not what we bond over. I've always been a loner and it's very much true that as the older you get it's harder to form new friendships, but over time you get used to not having friends and those you do you tend to only initiate when you have something to tell them, otherwise you just let them contact you first which means that you could go anywhere from a week to a month or more without speaking.
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secret_no_03 got a reaction from psychonnect_rozen in Visual kei among friends
In HS I had one friend who loved X Japan, one was a metal head and loved stuff like BFMV and kinda liked the GazettE and the other who was more grunge liked the pillows. Everyone else thought it was Chinese rather than Japanese. Now, nearly 30, those friends are long gone, and the only person I talk to on a regular basis doesn't care about that sort of thing as that's not what we bond over. I've always been a loner and it's very much true that as the older you get it's harder to form new friendships, but over time you get used to not having friends and those you do you tend to only initiate when you have something to tell them, otherwise you just let them contact you first which means that you could go anywhere from a week to a month or more without speaking.
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secret_no_03 got a reaction from suji in The return of the BL fanservice
It is very much. The LGBT community in Japan is miniscule compared to pretty much anywhere else, they have a small pride parade, but generally gay is humor of Japan. Hell, Hard Gay has made a career on that sensibility of Japanese humor.
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secret_no_03 got a reaction from CAT5 in Japanese Anti-Feminism
I'm nearly 30 and went from not caring about anything when I was your age to getting right as far deep into SJW land as possible, voted for Obama and founded the North American chapter of a Japanese antifa, but as I've gotten older and seen what feminism and SJWs and censorship etc can do, I'm somewhere in the middle now.
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secret_no_03 reacted to bluevelvetkyo in Selling 90% of my Dir en grey collection
nope only the plush
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secret_no_03 got a reaction from Neigedesmannes in Japanese Anti-Feminism
I'm an avid watcher of Yuta and Nobita on YouTube and occasionally watch Asian Boss, and the videos about feminism or lack there of in Japan is fascinating. America and Europe has always had deeply rooted feminism and Japan seems to be the exact opposite, the interviews with the average Japanese women would make feminists head explode; the women surprisingly or maybe not so surprisingly felt that women already had more rights and advantages than men and had it easier than men which is far and away from the institutionalized patriarchy and what has been called the anti-cis-white-male movement by many, not just incels.
This could technically open up to a broader conversation about conservatism being the norm in Japan, but that's another topic, best not to muddy the waters.
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secret_no_03 got a reaction from suji in Japanese Anti-Feminism
I'm nearly 30 and went from not caring about anything when I was your age to getting right as far deep into SJW land as possible, voted for Obama and founded the North American chapter of a Japanese antifa, but as I've gotten older and seen what feminism and SJWs and censorship etc can do, I'm somewhere in the middle now.
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secret_no_03 got a reaction from suji in Japanese Anti-Feminism
To be fair, this is about Japan, not internet trolls that make up majority of all youtube comments.
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secret_no_03 got a reaction from Ada Suilen in Japanese Anti-Feminism
I'm nearly 30 and went from not caring about anything when I was your age to getting right as far deep into SJW land as possible, voted for Obama and founded the North American chapter of a Japanese antifa, but as I've gotten older and seen what feminism and SJWs and censorship etc can do, I'm somewhere in the middle now.
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secret_no_03 got a reaction from spockitty in Japanese Anti-Feminism
I'm an avid watcher of Yuta and Nobita on YouTube and occasionally watch Asian Boss, and the videos about feminism or lack there of in Japan is fascinating. America and Europe has always had deeply rooted feminism and Japan seems to be the exact opposite, the interviews with the average Japanese women would make feminists head explode; the women surprisingly or maybe not so surprisingly felt that women already had more rights and advantages than men and had it easier than men which is far and away from the institutionalized patriarchy and what has been called the anti-cis-white-male movement by many, not just incels.
This could technically open up to a broader conversation about conservatism being the norm in Japan, but that's another topic, best not to muddy the waters.
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secret_no_03 reacted to bluevelvetkyo in Selling 90% of my Dir en grey collection
Haha same. Never thought I would be selling so much but I just haven't been that into the scene in the past 4 years and am trying to declutter/downsize in general.
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secret_no_03 got a reaction from Arkady in The return of the BL fanservice
It is very much. The LGBT community in Japan is miniscule compared to pretty much anywhere else, they have a small pride parade, but generally gay is humor of Japan. Hell, Hard Gay has made a career on that sensibility of Japanese humor.
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secret_no_03 got a reaction from Miku70 in The return of the BL fanservice
https://www3.gomovies.cool/film/gaycation-2016-season-01-23134/watching.html?ep=2689441v2
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secret_no_03 got a reaction from Miku70 in The return of the BL fanservice
It is very much. The LGBT community in Japan is miniscule compared to pretty much anywhere else, they have a small pride parade, but generally gay is humor of Japan. Hell, Hard Gay has made a career on that sensibility of Japanese humor.
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secret_no_03 reacted to merchenticneurosis in What are you tired of seeing on the fourms?
People being ungrateful for other uploaders + also some that posts releases on other sites while claiming it's their own. Eww.
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secret_no_03 reacted to Komorebi in NAZARE
AK from lynch. used to have a lip piercing forever ago and you can still see the scar. I think Aoi's can be seen too, but I haven't paid attention.
Zyean from JLK had more piercing too and you can tell on untouched photos.
I mean, if it's a piercing or two it isn't very noticeable unless you are paying attention, but if half your face was covered by them then idk. Maybe it depends on how long you had the piercing for, since some take a long-ish time to fully heal.
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secret_no_03 got a reaction from Miku70 in What are you tired of seeing on the fourms?
Cancel culture is cancer created by the YouTube crowd.
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secret_no_03 got a reaction from reminiscing2004 in What are you tired of seeing on the fourms?
MEJIBRAY aren't the best, but there's plenty of bands that are much much worse.