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    This is so upsetting T.T Girugamesh is one of those bands that I've been listening to forever, and I've been loving all their recent stuff too... REDMAN got kind of boring for me after listening for a while so if Satoshi goes back to that I'll be pretty bummed out. I'm excited to see what Ryo will do next though.

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    On 4/28/2016 at 5:54 AM, Yuno-san said:

    Hi everyone, it's good to read everyone's story.

    So.. I'm not sure if I'm asexual. (I was thinking about being gray-a but I think I'm still not right) Maybe you can help me out a bit?

     

    I never had a relationship, sex or a date at all. (I never kissed too haha..) (I'm 21 now) I don't mind hugging my closest friends and sometimes I imagine for example resting my head on a Jrocker's shoulder or hugging. But sometimes when friends try to make it worse (thinking about sex) I turn so red and sweaty and I want to hide under a blanket forever. Some people keep doing this and find it somehow enjoying.. I had a friend in the past (a he, but no relationship, just friends) and it felt so weird once he hugged me and lay a hand on my shoulder??? And somehow for a reason I can't ship real life people (for example Jrockers, actors etc.). I have like 1 or 2 OTPs in anime. But that's it. I feel like a relationship would be nice for me but I'm not sure yet if I want sex or not???


    So, what's going on with me? Feel free to ask questions!

    Hi there! I can't really tell you what your orientation is, but personally i think the biggest question to consider in terms of whether or not you're asexual is whether or not you feel sexual attraction. While I was learning about asexuality for the first time I read a lot of descriptions where people talked about what sexual attraction felt like and I found that I could not relate to any of it beyond regular old aesthetic attraction. So maybe that might be something you'd find helpful too, I dunno. But what you've described sounds like it could possibly be sex-aversion and maybe also just a general discomfort with physical contact from people you aren't as used to. And this is definitely the sort of thing that many aces feel, but it can also apply to allosexuals as well. It really just depends on the person and what they're comfortable with rather than who they are sexually attracted to. The same sort of idea goes for shipping I think, some people are crazy about shipping and some just aren't, I've never noticed any huge correlation with sexual orientation. Personally I ship all kinds of characters and I'm ace as hell so  ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

     

    But yeah that's just my thoughts, I hope it helps a little. If you never have I would highly recommend checking out some of the asexuality-oriented blogs on tumblr. The different resources some of them have explaining all the different sexual and romantic orientations helped me clear up a lot of confusion about what I was feeling back when I was learning about all this, and plus a lot of the people who run them are pretty nice ^^  

     

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    9 hours ago, peffy said:

     

    what the hell kind of class is that?

    unless the class is on "crappy japanese pop culture",  your friend should complain to the .. principal/head teacher/supervisor/etc

    Sadly it's just Digital Electronics class xD and not only did the teacher play the music, he was upset that my friend wouldn't "give them any props"... 

    Unfortunately complaining to the administration likely would not do any good, playing awful music during class is a very common thing among many teachers at my school. Most of them do it to try to be hip or whatever.  

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    On 4/15/2016 at 9:58 PM, peffy said:

    a friend just made me watch babymetal

     

    fuck babymetal

    I hate babymetal too they're just so annoying to listen to.

    Apparently one of the teachers at my school plays it during class all the time, I have a friend who's always complaining about it. I'm so glad I don't have him for any classes...

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    I'm not even into Ghost in the Shell but I do think it's extremely silly to have white actors playing Japanese characters in a Japanese setting.... And if they are going to have white actors, at least pick people who are equal to the best white cosplayers appearance wise. Like the white guy that's apparently going to be playing Light Yagami in that new movie doesn't even look like Light at all....

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  18. Posted · Edited by Deathtopi4

    These things might not be very fixable and if not no big deal but for one thing I noticed that when I'm zoomed in at 120% (which is how far I have to zoom in now to have the text at a comfortable size to read) the top bits where is says "more" "activity" "browse" and whatnot get really wonky.  Also, it might be nice to be able to go to a custom stream straight from the home page rather than clicking to activity and then to the streams part and then finally getting to the actual streams. Again though, no big deal. Thanks for all the hard work, the site is looking snazzy 8)

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