Heller, and welcome (back) to the forum! We all have that cringe phase that we tend to regret years later and take on a fresh start to redefine ourselves~ There are plenty of users here who would also be happy to discuss female bands, and you may even discover some new ones that you may want to check out!
Anyway, if you need any help or have a question, feel free to message anyone with a red or blue name! ♥