Sex/Porn Discussion 🔞

[Himeaimichu 1535]

Just now, secret_no_03 said:

Oh, really? I thought it was satire of a festival and just a porn parody lol

Wait, hold on, I just realised you mentioned them having sex.

I'm so fucking stupid I'm sorry ignore everything I said

[psychonnect_rozen 585]

18 minutes ago, secret_no_03 said:

Did anyone else see the festival? When I was probably @psychonnect_rozen's age I saw the video of the festival where everyone had sex on a huge circle around a giant phallic statue and that changed my life and view on Japanese sex culture forever.

That’s some shit I don’t wanna see lol.

 

Granted, there was a time I was for some reason into tentacle porn and I don’t know why

[secret_no_03 959]

9 minutes ago, psychonnect_rozen said:

That’s some shit I don’t wanna see lol.

 

Granted, there was a time I was for some reason into tentacle porn and I don’t know why

It's very tame, it's just about 20 people around a statue having sex in traditional attire.

[psychonnect_rozen 585]

Also, for the love of god I HATE FEET STUFF! It's fucking gross

[Himeaimichu 1535]

4 minutes ago, psychonnect_rozen said:

Also, for the love of god I HATE FEET STUFF! It's fucking gross

Same here. I could never get into it. In fact, I think the right kind of shoes is automatically like 100% sexier than bare feet lmao

[psychonnect_rozen 585]

8 minutes ago, Himeaimichu said:

Same here. I could never get into it. In fact, I think the right kind of shoes is automatically like 100% sexier than bare feet lmao

Girls with Converses and thigh highs are just....mmmm

[Gesu 1537]

9 minutes ago, Himeaimichu said:

Same here. I could never get into it. In fact, I think the right kind of shoes is automatically like 100% sexier than bare feet lmao

I think I have a goth boot fetish.

 

1 minute ago, psychonnect_rozen said:

thigh highs

You just reminded me of those high-heeled thigh boots Yuuki wore when he was in Lycaon. They made his legs look so loooong...

[psychonnect_rozen 585]

6 minutes ago, Gesu said:

I think I have a goth boot fetish.

 

You just reminded me of those high-heeled thigh boots Yuuki wore when he was in Lycaon. They made his legs look so loooong...

Shinya's legs are fucking perfect. Like oh my god... 

 

His uniforms from the Gauze era were the reason I have a crush on him. 

[psychonnect_rozen 585]

Literally every pro porn on the internet, there is no foreplay. Like at the beginning they're talking and chilling out and then five seconds later, he has his 12 inch cock right up the back door. Like holy fuck, at least like make out or something. 

 

 

Edited August 1, 2019 by psychonnect_rozen

[Himeaimichu 1535]

This is gonna sound weird, but I like it better in porn when the dude's dick isn't a massive fucking pole. IDK why. Maybe it's partially a dysphoria thing, probably also the fact I'm gay af.

[psychonnect_rozen 585]

1 minute ago, Himeaimichu said:

This is gonna sound weird, but I like it better in porn when the dude's dick isn't a massive fucking pole. IDK why. Maybe it's partially a dysphoria thing, probably also the fact I'm gay af.

True. Every pro porn has like a dude with a MASSIVE dick, like unrealistic looking. I'm sitting there wondering "Doesn't that hurt?".

 

Amateur dicks are better since they're obviously real and the sex is more intimate and legit. r/gwcouples is the real deal for that stuff 

[secret_no_03 959]

5 minutes ago, Himeaimichu said:

This is gonna sound weird, but I like it better in porn when the dude's dick isn't a massive fucking pole. IDK why. Maybe it's partially a dysphoria thing, probably also the fact I'm gay af.

Probably because it's more normal.

[psychonnect_rozen 585]

Oh, what are some of your weirdest fantasies?

[secret_no_03 959]

Has anyone seen the JAV where they have fake tentacles? It's hilarious.

[itsukoii 1300]

1 hour ago, psychonnect_rozen said:

Also, for the love of god I HATE FEET STUFF! It's fucking gross

how bout we refrain from kinkshaming here? it's one thing to say "i'm not into that" and another to be like "YUCK i don't like this and anyone who does is a disgusting freak", u kno. i'm not majorly into feet myself but i do have some fetishes that i've gotten the same response to, it's a little irritating 

 

edit: ESPECIALLY because fetishes are normally not learned, but something one is born with. doesn't feel too good being shamed for something ya can't change

Edited August 1, 2019 by itsukoii

[psychonnect_rozen 585]

1 minute ago, itsukoii said:

how bout we refrain from kinkshaming here? it's one thing to say "i'm not into that" and another to be like "YUCK i don't like this and anyone who does is a disgusting freak", u kno. i'm not majorly into feet myself but i do have some fetishes that i've gotten the same response to, it's a little irritating 

 

edit: ESPECIALLY because fetishes are normally not learned, but something one is born with. doesn't feel too good being shamed for something ya can't change

What I meant to say was that I don’t understand feet stuff. If you like a fetish, cool.

 

Sorry if I was too judgmental lol

[itsukoii 1300]

Just now, psychonnect_rozen said:

What I meant to say was that I don’t understand feet stuff. If you like a fetish, cool.

 

Sorry if I was too judgmental lol

with fetishes, there's not really anything to "understand". it just is. kinks, on the other hand, i think there's more room for understanding and questioning because they're a lot more complex and not as simple as "this non-sexual thing really arouses me, but there's really no reason for it".

 

no prob, tho, i just wanted to pop in about that

[secret_no_03 959]

6 minutes ago, itsukoii said:

how bout we refrain from kinkshaming here? it's one thing to say "i'm not into that" and another to be like "YUCK i don't like this and anyone who does is a disgusting freak", u kno. i'm not majorly into feet myself but i do have some fetishes that i've gotten the same response to, it's a little irritating 

 

edit: ESPECIALLY because fetishes are normally not learned, but something one is born with. doesn't feel too good being shamed for something ya can't change

Born with? Where in the world is the research behind that?

[psychonnect_rozen 585]

2 minutes ago, itsukoii said:

with fetishes, there's not really anything to "understand". it just is. kinks, on the other hand, i think there's more room for understanding and questioning because they're a lot more complex and not as simple as "this non-sexual thing really arouses me, but there's really no reason for it".

 

no prob, tho, i just wanted to pop in about that

I’m sure many people are into weird ass things

[itsukoii 1300]

2 minutes ago, secret_no_03 said:

Born with? Where in the world is the research behind that?

speaking from personal experience. also i said "not normally", so i'm sure for some they might be learned, but it's still a general rule of "this non-sexual thing arouses me without reason" so my point still stands

Edited August 1, 2019 by itsukoii

[Gesu 1537]

Just now, secret_no_03 said:

Born with? Where in the world is the research behind that?

I guess it's as unchangeable as sexuality in general. I'm straight and I was born that way, but outside influences beyond my biology solidified that, in the same way that you can't help what interests you in pretty much any case but what you discover in life will reinforce your interests/allow you to recognise that they are actually your interests.

[secret_no_03 959]

Just now, itsukoii said:

speaking from personal experience. also i said "not normally", so i'm sure for some they might be learned, but it's still a general rule of "this non-sexual thing arouses me" so my point still stands

Oh, I was truly intrigued, that's disappointing...😔

[psychonnect_rozen 585]

Usually kinks come from experiences. Like for example, DDLG is often for people who have had maybe a shitty parent or no father figure in their life. 

 

 

[Gesu 1537]

2 minutes ago, psychonnect_rozen said:

Usually kinks come from experiences. Like for example, DDLG is often for people who have had maybe a shitty parent or no father figure in their life. 

 

 

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[Himeaimichu 1535]

@itsukoii Is right for the most part. Kinks are something you're born with, but they can also be from experiences. Itsukoii didn't leave out the possibility of it being learned.