TheZigzagoon

@Gesu I remember their ‘American Idiot’ days as a kid, I think I was about 8 years old when that came out, but I like their 90’s stuff the most! Their new stuff doesn’t do much for me 
 
@monkeybanana4 Their old stuff is great! ‘Dookie’ is solid and ‘Nimrod’ has a few tracks that I’m not too keen on but for the most part I like it! I used to listen to the British band ‘Blur’ a lot before getting in to VK god those were the days xD 

@Gesu Blur released some good stuff! I don’t know if you’ve listened to their album ‘Modern Life Is Rubbish’ but it’s their best imo! And the poor milk carton that got killed always got me as well! I love that song tho! XD 

Blur were my dad's favourite band! He got me into them when I was about seven and I loved them, but I always got really sad watching the Coffee And TV music video because of those tragic milk cartons ;-;

@Gesu I remember their ‘American Idiot’ days as a kid, I think I was about 8 years old when that came out, but I like their 90’s stuff the most! Their new stuff doesn’t do much for me 
 
@monkeybanana4 Their old stuff is great! ‘Dookie’ is solid and ‘Nimrod’ has a few tracks that I’m not too keen on but for the most part I like it! I used to listen to the British band ‘Blur’ a lot before getting in to VK god those were the days xD 

Agreed. I really love their old songs. It's one of the bands I used to listen to a lot before discovering VK. Good stuff!

They were my favourite band when I was a kid X) I'm pretty sure I still have every album they ever released until around 2015-ish.

@yomii It’s not really tiring, I’m just trying to be patient for the outcome! Thank you! And I’m so glad that you’re okay now! Eating disorders are scary and no one deserves to live through that kind of pain, proud of you! The nipple piercing was my most painful piercing I’ve had done, and even then it wasn’t THAT bad, it definitely made me wince when the needle went through, other than that it was fine! Thank you! XD 

ohhh that must be tiring mentally. whatever you decide i hope the outcome will be the most positive for you! thank you, i'm ok now~ omg isn't it like really painful...i like how nipple piercing looks but just thinking of such things makes me feel very uncomfortable ww kudos to you for being so brave!

@yomii The most difficult part atm is that we’re still considering getting back together and I hate not knowing what the outcome will be. And I’m sorry to hear about your eating disorder, I hope that you’re well and in good health!  And that sounds like something I’d do tbh I’m no stranger to doing questionable things to my hair, but pink hair is the best hair!! XD My smiley piercing is a little bit sore, my nipple piercing is fine it just has it’s sore moments when I’ve caught it! 

breaking an engagement is a big step! it's sad, but on the other hand it's good you were not afraid to make this hard decision instead of ruining each others lives.
the most stupid thing was when i broke up with my first bf, i started a diet and suddenly found myself having an eating disorder lol.  some years ago i dyed my hair pink awfully, like, i bleached my hair and it turned out very uneven but i decided i had nothing to lose and dyed it pink...worst beauty decision in my life. how are your piercings btw?~

@yomii Yeah I’m pretty chill with it! We were friends before we got together, we got engaged in November, but recently we realised that we’re different people who want different things, so we decided to mutually split. Thank you very much for your supportive words I appreciate it! And tell me about it, the reckless do whatever stage is kinda fun! XD 

it seems you're more or less okay with what happened? then it's good i guess! there are times when you have to move forward. but in any circumstances break up is a shock, so i wish you a smooth recovery from it~
btw i knee smth happened when you wrote twice abt piercings lol that period after breakup when you do reckless things and then think tf have you done is priceless hahaha

Sorry to hear that   Watch out for that manic state tho...

For women I heard it's one of the worst to get done, for men I'm not sure. Either way, go topless as much as possible to let your skin breathe and also to minimise irritation. Cleanliness is your top priority.

Not had one myself, but seems to be the most painful piercing you can get? 
Never be worried about the pain, it hurts... if you can't take pain, don't take piercings 😛
 
For healing you can ask your shop for tips. Just be sure to keep it clean. And don't worry about an abscess to fast, let it grow a bit and plop it and clean it. no need to take the piercing out.   
But well.. hope it just heals without any problem. 
 
When I had my lip piercing, i did got a little abscess after plopping it a few times, it finally healed up.
 

@monkeybanana4 Thank you!!  

Haha, glad to hear that you had a blast XD 

@monkeybanana4 Thank you very much!!  I plan to get druuuuunk! Also I’m looking forward to the Gazette so much it’s so close now! 

@yomii Thank you very much!!

@Gesu Thank you!!

No one should feel that way Keep your head and know that you are loved! Talking to anyone interpersonal; someone you're very comfortable with, can help tons. It may seem corny, but having someone who is there to listen to you matters the most.
 
And thank you❤️ 

@JRD Thank you very much, interestingly enough my GP said she wouldn’t give me medication, which I appreciate, but then she said I was only 21 so shouldn’t be feeling this way which I didn’t think was professional! I hope you’re okay and that you manage to keep a healthy balance with your mental health! 
 
@yomii Thank you very much, it’s appreciated! 

@JRD Thank you very much, interestingly enough my GP said she wouldn’t give me medication, which I appreciate, but then she said I was only 21 so shouldn’t be feeling this way which I didn’t think was professional! I hope you’re okay and that you manage to keep a healthy balance with your mental health! 
 
@yomii Thank you very much, it’s appreciated! 

glad to know you've chosen not to give up! hope the doctor you'll find will offer the most effective aid and things will turn around for you as soon as possible. good luck ♡

I'm glad you didn't take the latter route on this and that you are still here. I feel you on this one. I was diagnosed with GAD and Social Anxiety Disorder. If I could give you any advice, it will be speak to a support group, and do not take any offers if your doctor gives you like Benzodiazepines or Alprazolam(Xanax, Valium, Klonopin, e.t.c); those are basically crutches and it's extremely painful physically and mentally if you get addicted to them.