There is nothing I hate more than men complaining/commenting about my VK related posts on MY own social media. Or any other girl's by that matter.
Does it hurt your ego that we talk about prettier men? Do you feel intellectually superior for "only following them for the music"? Does it affect your life if we want to discuss a member's attitude on their twitter or a hairstyle after we are done discussing their skills? Do you feel your manliness questioned if you happen to be seen discussing such frivolities with female fans?
We don't go around complaining about men's obsession with cars or sports and we don't ask them to stop talking about basketball because it annoys us.