Find something you can do to bolster your application, work and save some money to make the move easier, and then try again next year; don't be discouraged! A lot of people try more than once!
To top it all off, I lost my job over the holiday, so I currently have no job, am losing my place of residence, and then this. I'm afraid that now I'll lose my girlfriend, too, since she lives in Osaka. I'm fucked.